The Last Sapien | life's mystic

Life's Mystic |

The ride to Mystic Connecticut was true to this tile - it was a mystic ride all along. I was talking to two of my friends while trying to stay in lane on the wet roads, it is never easy to stay focus on completely two different things at the same time, nevertheless when it comes to relationships between people while passing a giant Semi-Trailer, or a hauling ass' truck.

Driving in an environmentally friendly car keeps you always questioning if it makes sense to floor the gas pedal and get a best effort acceleration - or just give up and stay behind and keep discussing NLP with a friend.

NLP is a brilliant concept of human communications (https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zsyZFeccSmo) starting with the inner voice and continuing with interaction with others.

Along the Mystic road to Mystic, CT I have exchanged ideas about how one talks and how things land on the other side - so wrong leading to miss-trust agony and dire arguments.

People tend to dwell on points and turning them to live or die situation instead of taking a broader look and understand that these are not that important.

I just realize that people waste their life focusing on the wrong ideas, chasing their own tail like dogs do, running in circles and forget that we are given this one way journey from birth till the end, not knowing when it ends, how it ends or why it ends. Very few look back to realize and cherish their own accomplishment, and even fewer turn to other and give them the notion that they are doing quite well. When was the last time you have complemented the person next to you, whomever it is, your wife, work wife, anyone. When was the last time you have intentionally were kind to a person you do not know - for the sake of being kind?

A sense of fulfillment is not about what you have done to yourself to become a better person it is how you have helped others to see the better person in them. When moving the focus on to others oneself gets the sum of all. If moving away from the 'Me Monster' more people would ask for your advise, would bag you to share your experiences and most important what you have learned from other people's experiences. Make sure that no moment is wasted on hate and agony, turn each moment to yet another thing you have accomplished by turning a negative thought to a positive one, turning paralysis to action, being better than not being at all. Then look back and see how rewarding it all could be. Humility and Kindness are the couple more functions I would add to the 'life's Swiss Army Knife'.

Happy Journey.